How about inventing a readymade DECISION Checker???

Life is full of decisions.. Decisions.. sometime its being said as " a report of a conclusion" or "a determination arrived at after consideration"... So basically it comes from what you think and conclude to do after active consideration or in a moment of fit/rage/emotion... But the real game begin when it(decision) tries to manipulate/affect/change the way you live life.. in any sense, it changes you.. for good or for bad.. so how about getting it cross checked against some parameters which indicates good enough way to ensure 100% success.. But alas, nothing has been made till now and never it will come (though I would love to see one).. The reason I can see it can't happen as decisions which seems to be same that 2 persons make, the catalyst is always almost different.. The condition surrounding the 2 situations are different.. And mapping everything is always difficult.. So here comes the kicker? How do I know my decisions are good enough? As no pain is bigger in this world when you feel after sometime, that the decision you have made sometime back is going to make you live with pain for whole of your life... How well it would be if we could have cross-check, re-verify, re-adjust our decisions.. but alas sometime we are time bound and need to go with hunch.. HUNCH.. So is Hunch makes us to arrive at our decisions... Sometime people will say, get over it... U had made a few bad calls, but get over it.. But what happens if again we got to make that decisions... As we know from the movie, YSZ.. HUM KUCH SOCHTEY HAIN AUR YEH SAALI SOCHTI KUCH AUR HAIN .. So basically we can't control what life will dish out to us... So then we got to make the decisions.. Hell God, what do I do now.. do I carry forward the lessons learnt from previous.. or I pass the situation and let the things go by.. Or do I say, suck it up, I will do this and I will do that and then I decide... and then I do DECIDE.. Will I be correct this time? As lessons learnt doesn't guarantee that I will succeed this time.. So does everything boils down to the fact, Your decision, you own the result too.... well we all do that.. sometime maybe we pass on the result to GOD, sometime to human beings.. but taking a hard look inside will make us feel that, I could have made it pass.... But in general, we have been owning all our decisions result... Most of have been good else I wouldn't have been blogging and you wouldn't have been reading this... But then, as they say, Life is leveller.. if one achieve more, then one decision will go wrong and then it becomes QUICKSAND.. U try to come out, then U made one more wrong DECISION.. and then one more.. one more.. U keep sucking in like in QUICKSAND.. and U find U can't move, U can't crawl... Wow, I would have loved that DECISION CHECKER......................

Being Crazy and being in love!!!!!

Well, I couldn't have stopped blogging this... I was watching this very movie in one of the channel and there was one sequence where the guy asked the girl when she was dumping him as what happened? He thought that they were in love.. they had so many good moments together.. She replied saying, yeah, she was CRAZY about him but now she realized that it was not LOVE.. The guy was shell shocked.. whats the difference???? The guy didn't find any reason.. The girl tried to walk him through with different opinion and different reasoning, but the guy just couldn't take it and walked off... That triggered the question in me... wait a second, whats the difference... So here is my thought: Craziness is momentary whereas Love seems to be permanent.. Craziness seems to happen under bizzare circumstances at bizzare places with almost anyone for any of their action.. but love just grows with time... well, craziness might fade away but love mayn't (or maybe)... But at some point of time, we might almost fall for craziness thinking its love... and feel stupid of ourself when we discover it at later point of time, well it wasn't... Yes, sometime craziness and love goes hand-in-hand but that's the most dangerous combination as you never know when craziness will fade away and that makes love a single companion and that's where comparison creeps in and things tends to fall apart.. like you were not like this, you used to do this for that.. but when you are crazy and in love, those all incidents looked very very small and ignorable.. but without craziness, god help the couple... so that's what again brings us to 2nd question, can love survive without being crazy? looks like a chicken and egg theory!!!! you can't be in love without being crazy and you can't be crazy if you don't have love? so what drives what? Craziness drives love or vice versa.. I guess we need a Plato/Aristotle here to help.. :) being said that, I guess I forgot to pen here that I actually catch the movie in between and as such I couldn't gather the name of the movie.. if anyone knows the name, please let me know... And neither I could see the end of the movie as the power went down... Really want to see the end.. what happens?