Life is full of decisions.. Decisions.. sometime its being said as " a report of a conclusion" or "a determination arrived at after consideration"... So basically it comes from what you think and conclude to do after active consideration or in a moment of fit/rage/emotion... But the real game begin when it(decision) tries to manipulate/affect/change the way you live life.. in any sense, it changes you.. for good or for bad.. so how about getting it cross checked against some parameters which indicates good enough way to ensure 100% success.. But alas, nothing has been made till now and never it will come (though I would love to see one).. The reason I can see it can't happen as decisions which seems to be same that 2 persons make, the catalyst is always almost different.. The condition surrounding the 2 situations are different.. And mapping everything is always difficult.. So here comes the kicker? How do I know my decisions are good enough? As no pain is bigger in this world when you feel after sometime, that the decision you have made sometime back is going to make you live with pain for whole of your life... How well it would be if we could have cross-check, re-verify, re-adjust our decisions.. but alas sometime we are time bound and need to go with hunch.. HUNCH.. So is Hunch makes us to arrive at our decisions... Sometime people will say, get over it... U had made a few bad calls, but get over it.. But what happens if again we got to make that decisions... As we know from the movie, YSZ.. HUM KUCH SOCHTEY HAIN AUR YEH SAALI SOCHTI KUCH AUR HAIN .. So basically we can't control what life will dish out to us... So then we got to make the decisions.. Hell God, what do I do now.. do I carry forward the lessons learnt from previous.. or I pass the situation and let the things go by.. Or do I say, suck it up, I will do this and I will do that and then I decide... and then I do DECIDE.. Will I be correct this time? As lessons learnt doesn't guarantee that I will succeed this time.. So does everything boils down to the fact, Your decision, you own the result too.... well we all do that.. sometime maybe we pass on the result to GOD, sometime to human beings.. but taking a hard look inside will make us feel that, I could have made it pass.... But in general, we have been owning all our decisions result... Most of have been good else I wouldn't have been blogging and you wouldn't have been reading this... But then, as they say, Life is leveller.. if one achieve more, then one decision will go wrong and then it becomes QUICKSAND.. U try to come out, then U made one more wrong DECISION.. and then one more.. one more.. U keep sucking in like in QUICKSAND.. and U find U can't move, U can't crawl... Wow, I would have loved that DECISION CHECKER......................
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:) Taps, it reminded me of the quick "mentoring" sessions we used to have in the TCS canteen... I related to the post and have a thinking hat on, now!
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